Is there anyone out there who doesn’t like to be completely and utterly spoiled? This next experiment is all about spoiling the person you love. With your partner, pick a day for each of you where the other person’s duty is to completely pamper the other person. Wake the person in the morning with breakfast in bed, help them into a robe and ambush them with love, kisses, and other imaginable things. Let them soak in the tub as you wash their hair, play some tracks of their favorite music. Take them out for a day of their favorite activities. Create a list of things you appreciate about them, shower them with gifts, and take them to their favorite restaurant for dinner. Back at home completely immerse them in massage, sensual warmth and relaxation. After doing all this selfless work you may run tired being the giver in this experiment, but when you pass the torch and it’s your turn to be spoiled back, that feeling will disintegrate very quickly.